Selasa, 25 Oktober 2011
Potentially Failed Love Relationship
There are 6 types of love relationships that are most likely to be damaged or fail. Check your love story, because maybe the story was included one of the "forbidden".
1. Relationship that starts from the principle of one hand clapping.
There was a man or a woman who was crazy about the prospective partner so that it becomes redundant. Phone more than 3 times a day, giving various kinds of gifts and attention. Actually there is nothing wrong of it all, if only all that goes both ways. The problem is that if it is only in one direction only.
In the end, this relationship will develop into an unhealthy relationship, because one loves the other party with the higher levels and unbalanced. Whereas in healthy relationships, there must be equality or equality. This relationship can also be a "utility function". That is, those who feel the 'love object' can take advantage and make use of the subject. This relationship can also be based by a sense of pity that the effect is obviously not good in the future.
2. The relationship that began as a 'fantasy'.
In the process of life, sometimes there are times when a person is in the 'fantasy'. For example, the middle of busy work, a man vacationing unity given area and met a woman who was vacationing in the area. Under these circumstances, if the two men were attracted to each other, then they tend to a love affair.
This is called relationship 'fantasy'. Both are non-routine and stuck them together in a relaxed atmosphere that are only 'temporary'. Sooner or later when they return to work routine or into the midst of a 'real', they like 'tercelik back'. And when that happens, the relationship 'fantasy' that can be quickly shattered.
3. The relationship that began as a rebellion against the family or parents.
For example, a man who chose women with criteria that are not liked by his mother, because there is a certain anger or resentment that kept the child against the mother.
The child himself may not really fit with the partner of choice, but he was forced to 'survive' so that parents feel irritated. Relationships like this much happening in our society. In the end, a relationship that will certainly not get the blessing of this can end up with disappointment and full of bitterness because of various problems, the smallest.
4. The relationship that began in a state of emotion that still hurt from a broken heart.
There is a type of person that as soon as possible to find a new lovely heart, after a broken heart. Whether he uses the new people just to distract, to vent all the sadness and disappointment, or even to intend revenge. And everything that could go unnoticed by the person.
Actually, maybe he could genuinely love her new lover. But most people with a broken heart still carry bitter experience of the past. In essence, do not push yourself to build a serious relationship with a man who had a broken heart. If it was already tied to her heart, should wait until some time until he's completely ready physically and spiritually.
5. Relationship arising from a sense of excessive admiration.
For example, a woman who was dating a guy who is a role model or idol figures. This is also the beginning of an unhealthy relationship. Someone who admires her partner to excess typically have excessive expectations or expectations of her partner. There is one picture of perfection to the spouse.
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While in reality there is no perfect human being! The idol could have made a mistake that will disappoint their partner. And this can make the relationship broken slowly or even fall apart immediately.
6. The relationship that began as a result of an affair.
Lately, many people are stuck with this one issue. Falling in love with someone who already has a spouse is a challenge for some people. Though the game is very harmful and dangerous is totally wrong! In it, usually there are wounds and bitterness, deceit, and betrayal.
And people who've decided to get involved infidelity will usually repeat his actions against his new partner. The teaser captured the couple other people will also be overwhelmed by feelings of guilt and betrayal at risk of becoming victims of their partners, more or less like law sow reap. Because of this, stop playing with fire, and find couples that are still available!
By knowing these possibilities, let's start a relationship with a safe and properly grounded by a pure love.
Sources; Jawaban.Com
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