Rabu, 26 Oktober 2011

Overcoming Sex Addiction


A wise man used to say, any thing if too much is bad consequences. How to criminal and sexual activity? Are people so addicted to sex is also bad consequences. Some might say yes those that disagree. No need to debate, but consider the following information concerning this sex addiction problem.
What is sex addiction?The experts concluded that sexual addiction is sexual activity that became uncontrollable. Addicted to sex forced the 'patient' to always look for opportunities and could have sex every time, which could affect the self, social relations and the scope of work.
Men For sex addicts, this can bring 'disaster' for himself, especially when not accompanied by an adult mind. The problem is sex addicts generally feel there is nothing wrong with him. Most of the sex addict will deny if someone told him in trouble. The reason that 'pintar'pun often spoken of sex addicts, they asked if the reason why her sex is everything.
Form of sex addiction can vary, but generally outside the control of behavior. Such behavior is for example:- Liking things excessive pornography- An exhibitionist and the like- Too frequent masturbation- Like it or internet phone sex- Affair performed by many people- Sex at risk (high risk sex)
Sex can be a 'dependency' as well as when you are dependent on alcohol and other liquor. During sex, our bodies produce a chemical reaction that makes us feel 'good' and quiet.
Some people become addicted to the 'benefits' of this chemical reaction and becomes obsessed to always get the sensation of sex that much higher. And tubuhpun familiar with this chemical reaction, so that the 'addict' is always trying to maintain their sexual activity, in order to get a 'condition' that has been accustomed to it.
The difference of sex addicts and sex lovers, addicts often do not care if he was in danger when trying to perform sexual acts. Sex lovers can still think 'straight' and resign if his sexual actions will bring harm or embarrassment, either to himself or to her partner. While the addict will go ahead and do not care about the consequences.
Approximately 2-6 percent of the total world population experiencing sexual addiction. But it could be a reality greater than the amount that, given the addict usually embarrassed to admit the situation himself and did not have the courage to visit a doctor to seek help.
Limits to which it was suffering from sex addiction is not limited to age, occupation and gender. Since the more widespread use of the Internet, where sex smells of services becoming less expensive and easier, experts estimate the sex addict patients increasing in number.
Dr. Patrick Carnes, one of the experts in the field perlaku irregularities and sexual addiction, saying that there are some symptoms that need to be aware about sexual addiction, namely:
1. Feeling that you are getting out of control action
2. The tendency to perform sexual activities that damage / high risk
4. Like sexual fantasies to satisfy the sexual desires that can not be achieved
5. Feeling unable to stop our attitudes, even know about all the consequences of your actions
6. Always wanting more sexual activity, at least as it has gotten, or even more than that
7. Spent more time just to satisfy the sexual desires and everything about sexual activity
8 .. More concerned with sexual activity over the need to socialize, work and entertainment affairs of others.
9. Always wanted to do things of a sexual nature
How to OvercomeIf you feel you have a behavior as noted above, the first thing to realize is that sexual addiction is a serious problem that will not disappear by itself. You must get treatment or therapy to cure it.
Most people find it difficult to change their own behavior. You may be able to reduce sexual activity for a while, but usually the cycle will be more frequent and difficult to break. Therapy services from professionals can help you understand what's going on and strengthen your spirit to turn it into a more healthy sexual life.
Treating sex addiction, like other addictions, greatly depends on the person concerned. If he could realize that his actions are wrong and there is a willingness to change, the treatment becomes much easier. Treatment process can be a series of therapy on sexual health, healthy relationships, marriage, or a support group program. Sometimes certain drugs, like Prozac or Anafranil, it is necessary to restrain the excessive sexual drive.
If your partner is experiencing sexual addiction, this is a challenge for you to help him change his behavior. You need to realize also that no one could recover from his addiction but he accepted that he had a problem and are determined to change. Having a partner that sex addiction is hard and confusing, but it is not impossible to cure. You just need to encourage him to consult a doctor.Sources: World-Wanita.com

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