Kamis, 14 April 2011

how TO PARENTS



Mingle PROCEDURESA. Procedures Mingle with Parents.Who is the person closest to you sejal born? Of course your parents, right? It is they who brought you into this world with God's permission. Betap of their services so that you will not be mempu count. But, let's try our detailed services to our fathers and mothers!1. Pregnant women with great difficulty, kamudian birth with very ill.2. diving two-year nursing mothers lovingly. He is more awake at night due to meet the needs of children.3. Mother and father care for us so that we are ready to live independently.4. My father worked hard to meet family needs.5. His father and mother gave provision of education.6. His father and mother give love with sincerity without asking for a reply.Note the description above! The services mentioned above are just a small part of parents to child services. Therefore, should we devote to them. Look! God medudukkan devotion to duty both in the second rank after the obligation to worship God Almighty. Firman Allah swt:It means: "And your Lord has commanded that ye should not worship other than Him, and be kind to mother your father bebuat best ...." (Surat al-Isra ': 23)Once the services of our parents so that the pleasure and the wrath of God depends on both the pleasure and wrath. Messenger of Allah said:It means: "the pleasure of God depends on the pleasure of parents and the wrath of God depends on the wrath of both." (Narrated by Tabrani)1. When parents are still alivea. Treating both premises polite and respectful.b. Fulfill all orders as long as they are not ordered to associate God and the sinner. If a parent ordered you to do immoral or shirk, you should not obey them. However, you should still treat with a good command of Allah as follows.It means: "And if they (parents) to force you to associate me (God) with something that you have no knowledge about it then do not follow their pergaulilah kedanya and the world well." (Surah Luqman: 15)c. Helping job at homed. Following all the advicee. Help when needed economic life2. When parents have diedDid you ever think that parents will devote to stop when they pass away? Actually, not so. Islam leads his people to remain dutiful to their parents even though they had died. Let's see how this provided the following Islamic!a. If both are Muslim, you can mendo'akan them any time to obtain the forgiveness of God. Prayer that is taught isIt means: "My Lord, forgive me and my parents and their rahmatilah as both have been memeliharaku at small time."b. carry out his will.c. Connecting and continue the relationship that previously was done by both parents.d. Maintain their good name.B. Mingle with the Teacher ProceduresGurulah that has been educating and teaching science to us. As educators, teachers, forming a human we become believers, understand good and bad, virtuous noble character, and become the person responsible, whether in self, community, nation and state.Master's precisely what makes us intelligent people and understand science. Thus, we will obtain a high position before God and man as the word of Allah swt:It means: "... .. God will exalt those who believe among you and the knowledgeable people some degree of knowledge." (Surat al-Mujahadah: 1)How do I devote to teacher / course you honor them by being:1. humility, courtesy and respect;2. implement his advice;3. greetings when meeting;4. menperhatikan if spoken inside and outside of birth;5. carry out his orders with sincerity.Listen and Friends of Ali's words petiklah value following ra!It means: "I am a servant of one who taught me a hurly. If my dijuallah willed and if she willed me freed. "Reflections:• dutiful to parents will bring us closer to God.• Acting in accordance with religious rules will save the world and the hereafter• Good Morals is key in dealing with parents, teachers, peers, older people, younger people, and the opposite sex.C. Procedures Mingle with Older PeopleTry you inagat back your childhood! Would you be educated and taught to respect older brother, uncle, aunt, grandfather, and grandmother? Do you not respect them? Jangalah doing that, both now and in the years to come! Respect for older people is tantamount to glorifying God Almighty. Messenger of Allah said:It means: "Some signs to glorify God, namely respect for Muslims who have white hair." (Narrated by Abu Daud)Who is older? Remember that people who are older in age, experience, knowledge, position or influence! We must respect older people with the following reasons.1. Older people usually have views and thoughts of a broader, both in knowledge and life experience.2. advice-advice Sangata amalakan valuable to us.3. older people are usually more wise in all things.After knowing it, what would you do? How do you / Come on, we see some ways this berikuti!1. Showing courtesy and respect to them, both in words and deeds2. Keeping his honor by keeping his good name.3. Provide opportunities first in all things, such as talking, sitting, eating, and walking.4. Respect his opinion.This entry was written on 03/04/2009 at 1:44 pm and is stored in the Islamic.

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